Friday evening we celebrated Josh’s 32nd birthday. We had a good time of fellowship with Stephen & Kristen Ryland.

Sunday Flopsie had surgery. Our dear pastor’s wife offered to re-stuff Flopsie for Becca. It’s something I’ve been wanting to do for awhile. Flopsie can now hold his head up again! A big thank you to Kathy for doing this for us!

Saturday we went to Arlington Library’s Teddy Bear Picnic & Parade (see comparison pictures from last year). The weather was perfect and we all enjoyed being outside.

We had a lovely Resurrection Weekend. Saturday night we made Easter Story cookies. Sunday after church we had dinner with the Walton and O’Neill families. We were honored that the Waltons included us in their Easter celebration (a very good reminder to look out for people who don’t have family in the area and invite them into your home for holiday meals). In the evening we decorated and hid Easter eggs. We ended the day by having egg salad sandwiches for dinner.

Easter Story Cookies:

Easter Gifts & Clothes: Becca wore my old dress. It has a bell in the petticoat. I remember being so excited when I got to wear it. I had a new dress too – first time in years (thanks Dad for the LE giftcard). (We didn’t make the boys endure a photo-shoot. We gave Isaiah raisins for Easter – in case you were worried about him being left out.)

Easter Eggs

Happy 32nd birthday to my dear sweet husband! Thank you for being my best friend – for pointing me to Christ – for serving and valuing our family – for marrying me before you finished your Ph.D. – for wanting to have kids before you finished your Ph.D – for always being on my team – for being a wonderful Daddy to our children – for wanting more children – for being fun – for washing the dishes – for making the bed every morning – for taking out the trash – for loving me – for laughing with me – for wanting to go to Cambodia – for making our lives so adventurous – for so much more. Happy birthday to the most wonderful man in the world. We love you!

A very happy 10-month birthday to our happy little man! Isaiah is now army-crawling all over the place. He knows how to get up on his knees but hasn’t figured out how to get those little knees moving yet. This past week Isaiah learned how to sit up all by himself. . .a technique he likes to employ when I put him down for a nap.

Isaiah loves to feed himself. He sometimes gets a little discontent when we try to fed him. He LOVES raisins! He also loves to feed himself tiny objects off the floor. This boy is an expert at finding tiny objects.

So proud of my man for passing his dissertation defense today! Thank you for praying. We thank the Lord for being with Josh throughout this process.

The Structure of Clauses and Noun Phrases in Jarai
Joshua Jensen
Friday March 29, 2013
10:00AM, Trimble Hall 200

Abstract:
In this dissertation I aim to provide a syntactic account for the three regions of the Jarai clause (the operator domain, the inflectional domain, and the theta domain) and for several elements in the noun phrase. Major topics in the discussion of the clause include wh-questions (which can take three forms: wh-in-situ, wh-fronting, and wh-pseudocleft), unaccusatives, and serial verbs. My investigation in the noun phrase includes coverage of classifiers, number marking, and quantifiers.

Please pray for Josh as he defends his dissertation Friday, March 29, at 10 AM Central Time.

Last week (March 17-20) we participated in a missions conference at Westside Baptist Church in Eugene, Oregon. We were invited by the church’s assistant pastor, Nathan Damm, a former classmate of Josh’s. Nathan invited us after reading our article in the EMU newsletter. Josh taught Sunday School, prayed in the second morning service, and gave our missions presentation Wednesday night. We also sang in both Sunday morning services and the Wednesday evening service, as well as led junior church Sunday night.

The church gave us a warm welcome. We enjoyed fellowshipping with the people in the church as well as the other missionaries invited to the conference. We enjoyed several meals with families in the church. It was a great way to kick start our deputation journey. We thank God for a good missions conference, safe travels, good health, new friends, and for helping both kids do great.

We stayed with family (pictured above) for a week while in Eugene. Josh’s grandmother’s cousin, we call her “Aunt” Jan, lives in Eugene, where her husband, “Uncle” Mike, pastors a church. Aunt Jan made us truly feel like her home was our home. It was an ideal situation. The Friday before the conference we went to Sweet Home, OR, to visit with the Andereggs (friends of the Jensen family; picture to the left). Saturday night Aunt Jan had a family get together where we met some other second and third cousins (picture to the right). Wednesday afternoon I taught a music class for the after-school program at Uncle Mike’s church.

Friday evening we drove to the coast. It was my first time to see the Pacific Ocean. I was really hoping to see a sunset, but the weather did not cooperate. Becca was excited about putting her feet into the water until the ice cold water touched her feet – then she cried and ran away. She refused to go back until she realized that her mommy didn’t want to put her feet in the cold water. After that Becca was thrilled to drag me down the beach! And she proceeded to ask over and over again to go in the water!

Two funny Becca stories: Right after Josh prayed in the Sunday morning service Becca said loudly, “but I want to pray for a little sister!” Anytime we pray she always asks to pray about a little sister. She just couldn’t understand why this couldn’t happen in the church service. I was able to convince Becca to pray quietly for a little sister. In the same service, Becca was sitting with the children to go out for Jr. church and got a hymnal to sing with the congregation.  She couldn’t understand why the children’s workers took it away from her (they don’t let the kids use hymnals since they usually drop them) – Becca burst into tears, loudly exclaiming that she needed a hymnal to sing! Fortunately I had positioned myself in the pew directly behind her and just lifted her over the pew and into my lap so she could sing with a hymnal.

Becca is going to be a wonderful mommy someday. She’s great at nursing her babies while reading. She knows how to do library story time. She also knows all about airplane safety. The other day I found her on the couch with Flopsie and Eva. All three had cups over their mouths. When I asked Becca what she was doing, she said that they were doing that because they couldn’t breathe on the airplane. (Guess she was paying good attention when we flew at Christmas.)

Recently I’ve been thinking about “future mommying.” The mommy I am today is setting the foundation for the mommy I’ll be for many years to come. The ways I talk with Becca and listen to her talk are laying a foundation for our life-long communication. I have to have a picture of what our parent/adult-child relationship should look like. . .  I can’t have the mindset of just getting through the “little years” and working on that relationship when they are older. I must intentionally work during these little years to lay a foundation for the future mommy I want to be.  Just some thoughts . . . come over for some coffee and we can chat some more.

Recently when Josh and I were walking, I made the comment “you reap what you sow.” Josh noticed Becca was listening and asked her if she knew what that meant. We then took a moment to talk about planting seeds and reaping a harvest: “when we plant a lettuce seed does a watermelon grow? Do apple seeds grow into grass?” etc. A little while later Becca asked for some apple seeds. We cut an apple open and Becca hurried off to plant the seeds in “her garden.” Then she asked if she could get an apple out of the fridge. A few minutes later I went into Becca’s “bear garden” to see the apple she was reaping from her sowing.

We are teaching Becca the books of the Old Testament using hand motions for each book. She is a fast learner, and it’s prompted a lot of good conversations about the OT. So far we’re up to Obadiah. These pictures are of Becca trying to teach Isaiah the OT books.

Last week Isaiah made his first venture out of the living room. I watched him go to the doorway and just stare into the unexplored territory. His first stop was the bathroom. Since then Isaiah has turned into a speedy little explorer. It’s so cute to see him move all about the house. Watch out world (and Becca)!

Monday’s high was 86 degrees. We took advantage of the lovely weather and spent most of our non-nap-time outside. In the morning we went to a park and in the late afternoon we walked over to see Josh at school. Isaiah loved riding the swing.

Please pray for Josh as he works on his dissertation. Josh’s defense is scheduled for March 29th. As you can see from the collage on the right, Becca is trying to help Josh with his defense facial expressions.

Last week we visited with Dad J during his layover in DFW. Lord willing the next time we see Dad will be for Josh’s graduation!

Happy 9-months to our precious little boy (19lbs & 10oz, 27.27in long). Sai Zai is a little jokester – he loves putting hair rubber bands in his mouth and then grinning up at me. He loves vigorously shaking his head back and forth. Isaiah now babbles: mamama, dadada, bababa, t-t-t-t, and he makes kissing noises. He is moving little by little across the floor. I’m expecting him to take off any day now.

Last week I dropped off a load of things at the Arlington Pregnancy Center’s Resale store. It was a box containing different unused kitchenwares we received as wedding gifts. They were things I’ve kept “just in case” we ever moved into a bigger home or in case the Lord led us to stay in the States instead of going overseas. I’ve pulled these things out several times to give away, but I just haven’t been able to do it. Last month I pulled them out and put them in a box under our table, and they sat there for a while just in case I had second thoughts. Friday I finally got around to donating them.

I never thought I’d get sentimental about moving to another country and not having what we picture as the “normal” American home, but there’s a little something somewhere inside me that did. Goodbye crystal bowls and fancy dishes . . . you wouldn’t feel at home with us and we wouldn’t feel at home with you. The Lord is calling us to go to Cambodia and with delight and excitement we prepare to go.

Friday night we had some friends over for dinner – Ankur, Neetu, & Rohan Jain. We met this family last fall while walking around campus. Ankur is on the Mechanical and Aerospace Engineering faculty at UTA. Neetu and I usually get together a few times a month for the kids to play.

Becca and Isaiah have had some fun moments of interaction this week. Becca loves climbing in Isaiah’s pack-n-play (her old bed). She fills it up with her animals. The other day she didn’t want me watching them. I saw later that while closing her eyes and counting Becca would push her doll into Isaiah’s reach then scold him for taking her. She said something like, “You shouldn’t have Sadie . . .number 1….number 2….” Poor little guy!

Sunday night Becca decided Isaiah needed some toys to play with. I think she took out all our board books and opened them up for him to see. He got bored and moved to an open space in our living room. Sweet Becca quickly moved all the books over to his new spot.

A special thanks to our Valentine’s Day meal photographer, Rebecca Jensen. She did a great job with our photo session, and we especially loved the little noises she made to get us to smile.

By 5:30PM on Valentine’s Day I decided that the day was officially a disaster! Nothing had gone as planned. Isaiah was screaming and refused to go down at his normal bedtime. Becca was whining about supper. I had just been outside picking up after the dogs (yuck!). (We were dogsitting — more about that at the end.) Josh was going to be working late at school. PLUS it seemed like everybody on fb was having cute Valentine’s Day parties with their families . . . we hadn’t even made a single Valentine. Mommy Failure Alert!! My solution was to hide in the pantry and eat some of the cookies the O’Neils left us for house sitting. I know . . . it seems so silly to even think that way.

The main “disaster” of the day was my attitude. I wasn’t  happy about house sitting the dogs. My pride was hurt that I couldn’t “compete” with all the other fun moms on fb. I didn’t want to deal with cranky children. What I had to do was stop, confess my sin, and pray for help and patience. (Something I need to do more often!) So we started over. . . I gave Becca her probiotics in a red cup with cranberry juice and told her it was Valentine’s day punch. We made heart pizzas and she got to open her present, a map-of-the-world-placemat (Becca has been really interested in maps lately).

After dinner Becca and I played and Josh texted that he had a surprise. He came home early with roses and a steak dinner for me (I couldn’t eat the pizza since it had cheese on it – milk products bother Isaiah). My sweet husband. He decided to cheer me up and come home a little early. Valentine’s day ended much better than it started. I’m thankful for the help God gave me to change my attitude about the day.

Friday night Josh made us a delicious Valentine’s meal of fried catfish, green beans, and sweet potatoes [Amy helped with the veggies so we could eat before 9pm! -Josh]. Add to that the sparkling blueberry grape juice and mint melts and you have a wonderful dinner. Even though I’d already fed Becca dinner, she decided that she was hungry again and got to join in.

Isaiah had his 9 month (a little early) well check on Valentine’s Day (hence the evening crankiness). He weighs 19lbs and 10oz and is 27.27in long. According to the growth charts he is the “perfect” baby averaging around the 50%.

We house-/dog-sat for our pastor for a week. Amber and Piper are inside dogs with schedules. At first it was almost like having extra kids for the week. Both kids enjoyed the dogs. We got to practice being grandparents . . . I’m sure we gave those dogs way more dogs treats than their parents usually do!

Thursday evening we got together with the Kahlers. Leon and Nick were kind to drive all the way to our place and bring the food. We enjoyed the time visiting with our friends.

Isaiah finally figured out that he can roll over while in bed. For some reason, whenever he was in the bassinet part of the pack-n-play he didn’t roll over — until this week when he did, and was quite pleased with himself. I decided it was time to take the bassinet part down. (Becca and I were making beans when this happened, hence the apron and bean mustache.)

Tuesday we went to the Science Museum – it’s nice to have a membership. Becca missed her nap, and I was once again reminded that she still needs an afternoon nap. Our evening was filled with several meltdowns – the price of having a fun afternoon.

A few Becca quotes from the past months:

“I like this one. I’ve been wanting to use it all my life. But now I found it.” Becca’s response when given her washcloth with a frog on it.

“Who are you? Are you the Son of God? Are you the Holy Spirit?” Random question to Josh.

“I’m not a sinner right now. I’m not disobeying.”

“Sounds perfect for my life.”

“I said ‘God can do all His holy will,’ so I got candy.” Referring to answering catechism questions in Sunday School.

When talking with Becca about a disobedience issue, I asked if she wanted to pray and ask God’s forgiveness. I was surprised when she answered yes instead of her usual no. She went on to mumble a very fast prayer. When I asked her if she asked God to forgive her for disobeying she smiled and said: “Didn’t you hear what I said? Dear God I pray you would give Bella (her cousin) a ugly heart instead of a new heart.” So she still has some spiritual progress to make.

Our biggest news is that we purchased tickets to visit Cambodia in June. It all started last Wednesday when I was perusing ticket prices and found some really good deals. Saturday morning we finalized our purchase. Purchasing the tickets means that our time in Texas will soon be coming to an end – we have less than 4 months left.

Saturday night Josh took Becca to Chick-fil-A’s Valentine’s Daddy Daughter Date (reservations required). Not only is my man a wonderful husband . . . he’s also a fantastic daddy!

Monday morning I decided to take the kiddos to the Fort Worth Science Museum (thank you Ishams for the membership). I didn’t know the Fort Worth Stock Show was happening. We took advantage of our free admission (a benefit of being museum members) and walked around the buildings to look at the animals. Becca got tired of walking so I let her ride in the stroller – both kids thought that was great. (Know anyone who is selling a used double stroller?) [Update: we found one on Craigslist! Hopefully we’ll get it tomorrow morning!]

Hard to believe that our little man will be one year old in 4 months! At 8 months, Isaiah continues to be one of the happiest baby boys in the world.  He typically goes to bed around 6 until I wake him up for his pre-bed feeding, and then he sleeps until about 6:30 in the morning. He naps between every feeding. He loves eating sweet potatoes and would eat them every day lunch and supper if I let him.

Isaiah’s two bottom teeth came in around Christmas time. The teething process didn’t seem to have any negative effects on him.

Our little man was sick the third week in January. He had a fever for three days and wasn’t his happy self the rest of the week. But even then he enjoyed playing with his new toy from Christmas.

Isaiah continues to do well with going to the potty about twice each day. A few times this past week during meal times I’ve wondered what’s wrong with him. . . food just doesn’t seem to be satisfying. Then I put him on the potty and think “Oh, he wanted to go potty. . . how was I supposed to know!”

Two weeks ago Isaiah started saying “dadadadada.” This week he started saying “mamamamama.” He also makes repetitive kissing sounds. (He loves his frog from Uncle Dan & Aunt Isabelle – picture to the right. The other night I had trouble making out Isaiah’s head since he had pulled the frog over himself.)

People are always asking about crawling. . .no crawling or scooting yet, [Or algebra! I’m so disappointed! -Josh] which makes things easier for me and calmer for Becca.

At Christmas we looked at Josh’s baby pictures to see if Isaiah looks like him . . . no. Later I was showing Becca my baby book and was shocked to open it up and see Isaiah!

I was teaching Becca how to wrestle the other day. We thought we’d let Isaiah in on the action . . . .

“Being a mommy is hard work,” Becca told me as she nursed one baby while bottle feeding another (picture on left). I laughed. Yes, being a mommy is hard work. Mommy-hood comes with tons of joys – loads of laughter, craziness, playing, singing, dancing, learning – moments of pure joy. But it’s hard work. I have lots of “loser-mommy” days; days when I feel like I should have “Loser Mommy” tattooed on my forehead. (I don’t post pictures from those days . . . yes, our cute kids cry, but taking pictures on those days is one of the farthest things from my mind.)

I’m finding the hardest thing about being a mommy is myself. I am a sinner – an impatient, prideful, selfish sinner. I’m a sinner saved by grace trying to teach a little sinner how to love and obey God when I’m struggling to do those things for myself. I told Josh the other night. “I have enough [sin] problems to deal without having to deal with Becca’s.”

Being a mommy of a 3-year-old means I’m always putting the Bible into simple terms. We talk about loving and obeying Jesus. Sounds simple, but have you ever consciously tried to love and obey Jesus all day long in word, thought, and deed? The more I talk to Becca about her need to have Jesus rescue her from her sin the more I am aware of my need for Christ’s forgiveness on a daily basis. Now at breakfast I pray that Mommy will love and obey Jesus.

Yes, Becca . . . being a mommy is hard work because I am a sinner struggling against my old nature while trying to serve my family. I’m far from being a super-mom. I am a mommy who desperately needs Jesus every day to fulfill the role He’s called me to. Lord willing we’ll both learn to obey Jesus and love Him more than anything.

This year we had our 5th annual MLK Day traditional getaway at the Country Inn & Suites north of the DFW airport. Our two criteria were a heated indoor pool for Becca and complimentary breakfast. We all had a lovely time and it was a nice break after Josh’s long days of writing.

Thanks to everyone who prayed about Josh’s dissertation deadline. Last week he completed a rough draft, and since then he has been editing and revising. Monday evening he submitted the draft to his committee. Soon they’ll decide whether Josh can defend this semester, and hopefully they’ll send their revision comments by mid to late February.

January 10th Becca had a follow-up MIBG and MRI to check for any traces of cancer. Becca did great with the MIBG injection the day before the procedure. She also woke up from the procedures in a pretty good mood. We found out last week that Becca continues to be cancer free. We continue to thank God for His care and healing of our little girl. Becca’s next MRI will be in April.

The Sunday after we arrived back from PA we drove to Keller, TX, for a few days of house-sitting. Becca loves being at the Woods’ home – she always requests that we watch Snow White there. Josh was able to have “office” space to work on his dissertation while Becca and I enjoyed having the use of a washer and dryer.

New Year’s Eve Becca and I put together her gingerbread house. She did a great job decorating it. (Though Josh nearly ate all the decorating candy: photo at left.) Afterwards we had popcorn and played with the train set. (Thank you Uncle Joey for the Christmas pj’s!)

Looking back, 2012 was an adventurous year for us. I spent the first few months of the year wondering whether Isaiah was going to follow in his sister’s footsteps or if he was going to be a full term baby. Right about the time we were adjusting to Isaiah, we found out about Becca’s tumor. This pretty much sums up our year. . . pregnancy, Isaiah’s birth, and Becca’s tumor, along with Josh’s dissertation progress.

This new year holds a lot of exciting changes for us. Lord willing, Josh will complete his degree this semester. We plan to move to SC sometime in June, after which we will start deputation for Cambodia. CPBC has graciously allowed us to live in their mission house starting in July. It will be a year of change and adjustment and we appreciate your prayers for us.

I’m also wondering what “unplanned” events the Lord has in store for us this year. Looking back over our first 4 years of marriage it seems like each year God has allowed some big unexpected event: 2009 – Becca’s premature birth; 2010 – Miscarriage; 2011 – pursuing a domestic adoption which ended up falling through; and 2012 – Becca’s tumor. I’m not sure what God has in store for us this year, but I do know that He is a faithful and unchanging God. I know He will continue to work His will in our lives and will continue to purge our dross in His refining fire. Our prayer is that He will continue to work in us for His glory and that we will grow in our faith and that He will help us in our unbelief.

Books Read in 2012
(all links are Amazon affiliate links: if you click and buy, we get a small percentage of the sale, at no extra cost to you; be aware that some of these books are available for free in digital form: Chesterton, Monte Cristo, and Piper in particular)

Books read together: The Dragon’s Tooth: Ashtown Burials #1; Sense and Sensibility; Shepherding a Child’s Heart; Leepike Ridge; One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich; The Count of Monte Cristo (Abridged Edition); The Drowned Vault: Ashtown Burials #2; & Manalive.

Books Josh read (not counting all his school reading): The Mind Doesn’t Work That Way; The Ambition: A Novel; Think: The Life of the Mind and the Love of God; The Resolution for Men; Future Men: Raising Boys to Fight Giants; Jesus Among Other Gods: The Absolute Claims of the Christian Message; Men Made New: An Exposition of Romans 5-8; A Short Life of Jonathan Edwards; The Code of the Woosters; Eugenics and Other Evils; 1 & 2 Kings (Brazos Theological Commentary on the Bible);  Black & Tan: A Collection of Essays and Excursions on Slavery, Culture War, and Scripture in America; Missionary Patriarch: The True Story of John G. Paton; & The Future of Justification: A Response to N. T. Wright.

Books Amy read: Scandalous: The Cross and Resurrection of Jesus; The Resolution for Women; Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches; Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus; Don’t Make Me Count to Three; & Building Her House: Commonsensical Wisdom for Christian Women.

Hymns Memorized in 2012

Chosen as His Children; Before the Throne of God Above; Behold Our God; Come Thou Almighty King; His Robes for Mine; Holy, Holy, Holy; Immortal, Invisible, God Only Wise; O God, Our Help in Ages Past; O Worship the King; & This is My Father’s World

We had a white Christmas in PA. It started snowing Christmas Eve. Christmas morning the first thing I did was take Becca out to play in the snow, since I was afraid it would melt by the afternoon. We had a great time making a snowman and having a snowball fight. When Becca got cold, Josh came out and built two more snow-people with me. It was a lovely way to start Christmas Day, and yes, the snow melted by the afternoon.

We started the family Christmas festivities by getting the picture-taking out of the way. Both kids and adults survived the ordeal.

After picture-taking, we began the Sutter Family Christmas morning (or should I say almost afternoon…it takes a while for 18 people to get ready in the morning) traditions: 1) Cinnamon rolls and carol singing – this year we had piano and trumpets accompanying our singing; 2)Reading the Christmas story with flannel graph – it is fun to see the grandchildren do the flannel graph; 3) Gift exchange – we are each assigned one family member to buy gifts for; 4) Omelets made by Sam – I think he’s been doing this since he turned 12; 5) Rest – naps, reading, games; and 6) Dinner. This year Uncle Joey ended the day with giving all his nieces and his nephew Christmas pj’s.

Our flight home on Thursday was cancelled, so we had an extra day in PA. Mom took the remaining families (us and Sam-Ashley-Colette, plus Emily and a friend) to the Whittaker Center in Harrisburg. The little girls enjoyed all the activities.

One funny story from Christmas – we bought my dad some pistachios for Christmas. After my dad opened them up, he and Becca spent the next several minutes eating them…and then the next several evenings eating them. Pretty sure Becca ate most of the pistachios — and perhaps even more than we gave Dad for Christmas!

Left-to-right, by family: Emily; Colette (19 months), Ashley & Sam; Amy, Josh, Isaiah & Becca; Dad & Mom, Jon, Ashleigh & Megan (6 months); Dan & Isabelle; Joey & Lauren (girlfriend).

This Christmas we gathered in Dover, PA, for a Sutter Family reunion – the first time we’ve all been together in two years. Josh and I (and the kids) arrived the Wednesday before Christmas. My parents had a little birthday party for Becca to welcome us. We had to have the party twice since Becca fell asleep at her “first” party.

Thursday we drove to NJ to visit Grandma Sutter’s. It was Isaiah’s first time to meet his Great Grandma Sutter and Great Uncle Johnny.

My brother Jon and his family arrived from SC Friday evening. Jon’s & Ashleigh’s daughter, Megan, is 3 weeks younger than Isaiah.

Sunday evening we went to Rocky Ridge park and saw lights and Santa Clause. It was freezing cold. Becca was so excited to see Santa that she was speechless when she finally sat on his lap. Dan & Isabelle arrived Sunday evening.

Christmas Eve we celebrated my dad’s birthday – he was born on Christmas Day, but we usually celebrate on Christmas Eve. My brother Sam and his family arrived late Christmas Eve.

One of the highlights of Becca’s trip was playing the trumpet with Grandpa. My dad has started practicing the trumpet every night. He had a cornet for Becca to play with him and she loved playing every night before bed with him. She also got to play his drums and harmonica.

We enjoyed our time with my family. I enjoyed getting to know my sisters-in-law a little more . . . not sure how my brothers got themselves such nice wives. We’re very thankful to my parents and Emily for all the cleaning they did before and after — it takes a lot of work to have 14 extra people invade your home! We’re also thankful for all the food, heat, and hot water . . . as we know the water/electric/food bills are greatly increased for the month of December.