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“Her Preemie Days are Over”

We’ll start out with some words Becca knows now (2 min, 11 sec):

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Warning: this blog is LONG! It’s mainly on Becca’s development and might only interest grandmas and aunts! In a nutshell, Becca is doing great both physically and developmentally for her real age. She’s a lot of fun and fills our house with laughter and smiles. Children truly are a gift from God. (Now you can skip the text and just look at the pictures!)

WORDS: We have had an explosion of words in the Jensen household. It seems like overnight Becca is talking and adding new words each day. The above recording is a sample of 80 of the words/sounds Becca says. There’s more, but this is the best I could do. Here’s my challenge to you…listen to the recording and write down the words you think you hear. At the end of the blog I’ll give the answer key so you can check your work!

HEIGHT & WEIGHT: At Becca’s 15 month well check in February, her pediatrician told me that “her preemie days are over.”  At Becca’s 19-month well-check (7/11) it was quite evident that she’s no longer at any disadvantage for being a preemie.  This was Becca’s first doctor’s visit where I could answer yes to all the developmental questions. Becca weighs 21 lbs and 12 oz (in the 5-10th percentile for her age) and is 31 in (in the 10-25th percentile for her age). We can’t blame her small size on her early birth. While visiting my parents in PA, I got my childhood stats. At both my 1-year and 2-year check-ups, my weight was in the 5th percentile and my length was in the 10-15th percentile for my age. Becca is just following in her mommy’s footsteps.

PHYSICAL ACTIVITY: Becca is a very active little girl! She loves going outside – loves going to the park – loves swimming. We recently went to a new park and stayed for 2.5 hours. I think Becca would have stayed all day. She’s brave and goes down the slide by herself. She climbs up and down and down and up and never seems to wear out!

The other day I asked Becca to get her shoes so we could go to the park. She walked into our living room, threw herself on the floor and started crawling on her hands and knees and then switched to an army crawl, all the while saying something that sounded like “shoes.” I had no idea what she was doing. It took a moment, and then I burst out in laughter….she was swimming (and saying “swim! swim!”) – it was hilarious!

PLAYING: Becca loves to play in her “room” — but only WITH Mommy or Daddy. She rarely plays in her room by herself, but will drag us in to “play” with her. She got a table and chairs from a family at church and loves to sit in the chairs. She points on the floor and tells me where to sit and what to do and how to play….even moves my hands to play with what she wants. She is always asking to “color” – though she likes playing with the crayons more than actually coloring on paper.

The other day we played “Queen Becca.” I dressed Becca up and set all her animals around her and taught her how to instruct them in obedience. After she addressed her subjects, she granted each one a kiss. Of course, Flopsie was her King. Flopsie has been becoming a bigger part of Becca’s life. He now gets a bib when she eats, is requested many times during the day, and recently he got to ride in the grocery cart with Becca. The other day we had to give Flopsie a bath….Becca wasn’t too sure about the process, but once I let her help she thought it was great. Well, she thought it was great until we had to hang Flopsie outside. That did not go over too well!

  

GOING POTTY: Yes, we’re working on potty-training Becca. It’s really no big deal right now…just a fun activity. Though, once Becca is potty trained it will save us some money on diapers and laundry. Becca knows what to do and knows when she is going potty. She isn’t always too keen on going potty in the potty, but she’s making process and she likes “chak-chak” = chocolate! The only time she wants to go potty is before naptime or bedtime. Then she desperately needs to go potty!!! The other night I was putting Becca to bed and she started crying, clutching her diaper, and saying “potty potty.” So we went potty and she had success…but that wasn’t enough. Becca insisted for the next 20 minutes that she had to go potty. I let her sit in the bathroom on her potty while I did other things. She was quite content to read, sing, and even cover herself with the bathmat as she waited to go potty. It was hilarious! Every time I’d walk back into the bathroom, she would insist that she had to go potty. Finally I put a timer on and said she had to be finished in 5 minutes…and then off to bed.

INTERACTION WITH OTHERS: Becca loves playing with other children. She loves the Countryman children from church. She often walks around holding Meaghan’s hand. We spend Thursday evening watching the Countryman kids and Becca loved playing with them. She also loves meeting new kids when we go to parks. Saturday night we had a get-together with some of Josh’s former Thai students to celebrate the completion of Lha’s Ph.D. Becca loved being with the ladies and showing them her room.

EATING: Becca is a good little eater. She is now feeding herself with a spoon. Her favorite foods, besides ice cream, chocolate, and cheese, are chicken, beans (she loves beans), and pizza. Except for raisins and bananas, Becca is not really excited about fruit. She does enjoy homemade fruit smoothies which we call “ice cream.” I believe her dislike of fruit  has to do with texture, since she’ll taste bits of fruit but will spit them out after a while. She doesn’t seem to like how they feel on her tongue. So….we have “fruit therapy” and hopefully she’ll get used to them soon!

If you’ve actually read this far, congratulations! I’m not sure if I’d have done the same. There are so many cute stories about Becca…so many things I could share, but time — both yours and mine — limits how much I can tell. Becca is truly our little gift from God. We enjoy being her parents. God has blessed Becca is excellent health – hardly a runny nose, except with association to teething, a joyful and fun spirit, and physical protection as she plays. We thank God each day for our little girl!

ANSWER KEY:  Here’s the key to Becca’s word list:

Becca, Pool, Naaman, Water, Swimsuit, Chair, Oatmeal, Dada, Mama, Eat, Color, Kiss Sound, Potty, Ball, Chips, Bucket, Up, Down, Bible, Bottle, Keys, Book, Cup, Coffee, Chocolate, Bath, Cheese, Raisin, Milk, Hippo, Truck, No Thank You, Yes, Pillow, Dolphin, Eyes, Ears, Teeth, Mama, Belly, Help Me, Amen, Beep, Baby, Stop, I LOVE YOU, Shoe, Ut-oh, Night – night, Please, Bed, All Done, Bye Bye, Hi, Oops, Lap, Clock, Doggie Panting, Meow, Mouse “eee – eee” , Bird Sound, Mooooo, Frog Sound, Froggie Went A Courtin, Apple, Ice Cream, Ice Pop, Bowl, Pipe, Hi, Jump, Puzzle, Lion growl, Bye Bye, Side (in or out), Bag, Cart, Hot, Bug, Bye Bye, Happy, Becca, Bye Bye.

How many did you get right?

Happy 1-Week Birthday, Becca!

IMG_0915Today is Becca’s 1-week-old birthday! It’s hard to imagine that only a week ago, our little Becca was born. Becca continues to do well with her feedings and is now taking 6ml an hour. Today they started her back on antibiotics to clear up an infection in her lungs. The nurse said BNICU 12-2-09ecca will probably be on the NICU 12-2-09antibiotics for 5 day, and they’re hoping this will help her to get off the respirator.

Becca received several presents today…which arrived just in time for her 1-week birthday. Uncle Sam and Aunt Ashley sent her a box full of clothes and a Bible Story book, one of my piano students gave her a blanket and teddy bear, and (honorary) Uncle Brian and Aunt Jo sent her two preemie outfits with a preemie headband. I love looking at her new clothes and thinking that someday she’ll be wearing these and be home with us. I guess they represent “hope” to me in what God is going to do in the weeks to come.

NICU 12-3-09

Like her daddy

IMG_0920When we visited Becca last evening we found out that they’re giving her caffeine to stimulate the part of her brain that reminds her to breathe. I’m not sure when they’ll let me start bringing her coffee in the mornings, but when I get the okay, I’m ready!

Thank you all for your prayers and encouragement. Every day so far, we’ve had encouraging news on Becca’s progress, and every day Amy feels a little better. We don’t know what God has in store for the coming days, but we’re trusting that He knows best.

Probably later today Amy will post some photos for Becca’s 1-week birthday.

Just a few pictures….

IMG_1287Becca’s “honeymoon” period is over — as the nurse said — and her ventilator had to start doing a lot more work for her today. The NICU nurses say that normally, babies have a “honeymoon” period for the first 24-48 hours in the NICU and then it takes a while for them to adjust. So…Becca’s now “adjusting” to her new home in the NICU. The good news is that they started feeding her today – 1 ml every hour for three hours and then she gets a break for an hour, so they can check to make sure she’s digesting her food. Usually babies “fail” at this feeding process a few times…but she’s had a good start so far. She’s now getting what I’ve been pumping for her the past three days.

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Thanksgiving 2009

IMG_0875Happy Thanksgiving! This year we’re thanking God for our little baby girl and for helping us know when to come to the hospital, so she could continue to live in the womb. We’re praising God for the safety He has given our little girl so farIMG_0866 and praising Him for His continual hand in our lives.

Nov 2009 2Baby J has had a rough Thanksgiving. She’s had several major decelerations and talk of delivery was in the air. The picture (right) of the heart monitor strip shows what a “decel” looks – the top graph is the baby’s heartbeat.  (When the line disappears, that doesn’t mean the heart isn’t beating, just that the monitor isn’t picking it up — perhaps because of movement.) I’ve been given oxygen twice today, had my iv restarted, and was put back into the Trandelenburg position for about an hour. The doctor was called in around 2pm and has decided that if Baby J has another bout like she has had the past 4 hours, we will have to deliver. Presently the baby’s heart has stabilized and she seems to be content. We continue to thank God for His control in this situation and look forward to seeing His hand work in all our lives.

(The picture collage above: top left – Trandelenburg position, top right – Thanksgiving flowers from Steffanie, bottom left – trying to use the computer while lying down, bottom middle – reading the newspaper a elderly man [hospital volunteer] brought by, bottom right – oxygen.)

My Doorsign – Nov. 25

IMG_0863-1IMG_0864I decided to make a door sign for my room, since we’re going to be here for a while.  Here’s a picture of the sign I put up yesterday. I also had a diabetes test this morning. Last night they put a sign on my door to inform people that I was not allowed to eat or drink after midnight. I decided to put up my own translation for the sign.

Here’s an update Josh wrote on Tuesday, after our follow-up visit with the perinatologist.

The perinatologist (maternal fetal health specialist), Dr. Goldaber, came by this afternoon.

The sonogram showed that the amniotic fluid is about the same as last Tuesday. Amy’s had a couple decelerations today, and when Dr. Goldaber looked over today’s chart, he said, “Those are some very significant decelerations.” Right now the cord is wrapped around the baby’s neck, which may explain why some of the decelerations today have been deeper than we’ve seen for a little while.  The baby is breached, which I suppose doesn’t matter much right now, since a natural birth is out of the question anyway. Then again, if the baby turns and gets her head out of the cord, there might be less pressure on the cord.

Dr. G. said he anticipates an early delivery, and wants the IV port hooked back up now so that Amy will be ready whenever the time comes. But at least she doesn’t have to be hooked up to the whole IV until it’s time to deliver.

Thanks all for praying. Dr. Moseley, Amy’s primary OB, said today, “You have a lot of people praying, right? WellIMG_0862 have them pray that your amniotic fluid goes up.” So there’s one prayer request. And the other is that Baby J can keep cookin’ inside a while longer. And keep praying for Amy’s health.

My dear husband continues to take excellent care of me. Here’s a picture of him traveling back to our apartment to do some laundry and transport some more things back to our new home.

Hospital Update Nov. 22

Nov 1091We are in our 6th full day in the hospital (I’m not sure yet if I should count last Monday or not).  On Friday the doctor decided that I could have my iv removed…having a free arm was a wonderful present! The baby has been doing well. She had a rough morning on Tuesday and the possibility of an early delivery was “in the air,” but since then she’s been doing much better. She has heart decelerations every day, but the doctor is pleased with the heart accelerations she has as well…it’s a sign of a “healthy baby.” I’m monitored all the time and a nurse usually comes in a couple times a night to have me shift my position to help decrease the decelerations she sees on her screen. My OB has been great – she comes by every morning and usually at night as well to check on me. She also stopped by on Saturday and Sunday. IMG_0851Today we’re waiting for a specialist to come in and do an ultrasound on the baby. He is stopping by on IMG_0861his way back home from the airport from a trip to Mexico.

We’re continuing to adjust to our new lives in the hospital. Josh has made the place quite homey and the nurses and doctors seem to like the atmosphere of our room. Josh was able to purchase a portable computer desk and has brought his computer over to the hospital. Now he’ll be able to do both his school work and web work from my room at the hospital.

martin-visitWe’ve enjoyed getting visitors and appreciate encouragement we’ve received. Baby’s favorite gift was the IMG_0839-1edible fruit basket she received from Uncle Sam and Aunt Ashley. The chocolate got her so wound up that it took the nurses over and hour to find her heart beat with the monitor! Micah and Anna Martin came over for lunch today and we had a wonderful time visiting with them.

Our New Home

IMG_0830-1I am now living in Texas Health Arlington Memorial Hospital – for an indefinite time period until our baby girl is born.

Here’s a clip from the email Josh sent out Tuesday night:
“Yesterday around noon, I took Amy to the hospital because she’d noticed decreased fetal movement for a few days. (We had called her OB in the morning, and the doctor had recommended we go in to the hospital to check things out.) After a few hours monitoring the baby’s heartbeat and doing a sonogram, they decided to keep Amy overnight to have a specialist check her out. The specialist determined today that because of an abnormally small amount of amniotic fluid, the baby’s at high risk of
IMG_0836-1pressing too hard against the cord, resulting in a dangerous decrease of blood flow. So they want to keep Amy in the hospital until delivery — which may be at 34 weeks or before — to constantly monitor the baby’s heart rate.

“We’re very thankful that the baby is healthy, with normal development and a strong heartbeat. We’re also thankful that Amy noticed the decreased movement so things could be checked out. Please pray that the Lord would give us grace for this unexpected change. Naturally, Amy won’t be teaching any more this semester. Please also pray for the baby’s health, and for Amy’s.”

IMG_0842Except for getting up to use the bathroom, I’ve been confined to the hospital bed. I’m hooked up to an iv on one arm and a heart monitor on the other hand, as well as the baby heart monitor and contraction monitor, both on my tummy…and I get some fancy leg wraps that fill up with air to prevent blood clots in my legs and increase circulation while I am in bed all day.

Josh has been the most amazing husband in the world. He’s taking very good care of his girls and I daily thank God for giving me such a wonderful man for my husband.

More updates to follow.